It is possible. Just like with anything... Business or relationships, sports or cooking, if after many hours of effort and hard work there is no result, there must be something wrong with the process. Work smart, not hard. Maybe you are looking for the wrong person? Maybe you need to change to accommodate another human being in your life? Maybe you are only dating one type of guys and not the other? It's oftentimes a small fix that will help with getting good results tremendously. Also one piece of advice that actually works! It worked for me after years of fruitless online dating, and it worked for 2 of my best friends: look closely within your offline circle. There must be a person lurking there already that is for you! It's really all about change of perspective.